My boyfriends friend was texting him about going to a concert, and I knew that my boyfriend didn't want to go to the concert, so I told his friend that he wasn't going to go. Then his friend kept saying that I wasn't letting him because I can't let him do anything, or something to that effect. Well it turned into this whole drawn out thing and all his friends hate me for some reason. I feel bad, like I'm making him lose all his friends. He doesn't care, he said I'm more important, but I don't know. =\
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August 19, 2009 at 11:35 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships
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August 19, 2009 at 11:35 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships
#2 by Anonymous
Your boyfriend needs to be a man and tell his friends himself. It's not your place to do it and it makes him into the "good guy" and vilifies you. I suspect he doesn't stand up for you when you're not around, either. I would just make sure to tell his friends, in front of your boyfriend, that you are not opposed to him hanging out with them. Put HIM on the spot and see what happens. Good luck!
#1 by mike
I would have just let your boyfriend tell his friends, it sounds like you are kinda controlling
