im the woman & my role is mother, i take care of our child 24/7. he's the man & his role is breadmaker, but is unemployed. i do not blame him for not being able to get employment right now (im in the same boat) what im upset about is that i do my "job" but he has none, so instead of helping out with our child, he does other stuff all day every day. when i try to get a little bit of help from him he doesnt even know how to handle his own child and doesnt see this as part his responsibility. he gets mad at me for it. everywhere i go our child goes with me, he simply walks out the door and i am stuck- its just expected of me. hes great when he is around but that doesnt say much. am i wrong to expect anything from him!
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December 26, 2009 at 4:41 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships
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December 26, 2009 at 4:41 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships
#2 by Anonymous
I find it interesting that some men treat the role of father as though it is a chore to watch your own child. Moms (all moms) need breaks from those wonderful gifts from God....dads should be the first line of defense....it appears that he is a dad in name only and is actually creating more stress in the household than not...you got a big decision on your hands and I wish you God's Speed in it.
#1 by Anonymous
honey... you had a kid with a bum. you're gonna have to face that. if he can't support you, then you need to just leave because at least that will only be two mouths to feed instead of three. if he loved that baby, he'd care for it. he doesn't love it or you. get on with your life already.
