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December 3, 2009 at 9:45 pm by Anonymous in - Sex
#4 by Anonymous
I happen to agree with 1 and 3 (2 is one of those negative controlling women that wont let her man out but we wont tell nobody lets keep that a secret). Any true relationship is about communication and trust without either of them you are headed (wheither fast or slow still headed) to doom. I have encouraged my man to go and visit strip clubs (the benefits when he gets home... whew) as well as hang out with his boys because he needs time to interact with other men...if he is kept on a leash only allowed to go to work and home then I dont have a husband I have a prisoner...I need him to be a thinker, provider and to stand up tall for this family. If he cant do that then I need to be alone. It appears that you have communicated with your husband what you like and he agrees so from that to this point...hug him and kiss him and smile at the dumb ladies that have control issues....
#3 by Anonymous
You will notice how right you are when these guys finally grab some balls, and leave these ladies with their controlling and insecure ways.
Like I always say, when it comes to the point where you are telling your man where to go, looking through his phone etc...(and you know these ladies are doing that too) it represents no trust; therefore, a faulty (and doomed) relationship.
#2 by Anonymous
I would personally be against it, but I don't think you're wrong. It's your marriage, and you can do it how you like. Every marriage is different and works different, so don't judge their marriage, and don't care what they say about yours.
Although, it's a lie to say you've never hurt each other or done anything to. No one is perfect, and the people we love are the ones we hurt the most. At least get off your high horse and stop pretending your marriage is better than anyone's else. Comparing love to that of others is sad and shows serious issues.
#1 by Anonymous
Oh honey... you have so much of a healthier relationship with your man than those other jealous bitches do with theirs. The thing is: men like to look at women and fantasize, etc. If a woman can't handle that fact and trust her husband to be honest with her about his needs... then she needs to get right with herself and/or get a new man. Demonizing sexual entertainment is NOT the way to go; it's blaming the ladies who are sex workers as the problem. (No, I'm not a sex worker myself... just a free thinker.) And blaming those women who work in strip clubs and porn is also insecure on the part of those wives... the ones who have totally cheated on their men and won't let them go to the strip club says they are insecure and probably feeling guilty as hell.
I'd have more to fear from those ladies at your work, those wives, trying to hook up with your husband by any means necessary... because they are probably jealous as hell you got a good man! You are NOT crazy, you have to let yourselves live as single people sometimes WITH a trust agreement that neither of you will cheat, and if infidelity is about to happen or does happen, you get full disclosure in the spirit of trust and honesty. Straight up, you are right in this case.
