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November 25, 2009 at 3:14 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships
#3 by Anonymous
Relationships are built on trust. You have to be able to tell each other the truth, no matter what it is.
And #2 is false when they say all men watch porn. It's not wrong, but that doesn't mean he should lie about it.
#2 by Anonymous
This is not a right or wrong situation... it's a trust issue. Firstly, all men watch porn. Lots of women are totally bothered by this, and it's up to you in your personal relationship as to what level of porn-watching is "uncomfortable" for you... though I think it's nice that at least he does it while you're not around. The porn is NOT the issue here... what IS the issue is that he has kids that he won't claim as his own to his own wife, and that he's still talking to his ex. Granted, if it's the mother of one of his kids, maybe they had important stuff to discuss about the kids... my first question: why did you marry him in the first place?
You need to quit bugging him about it and leave already. You can't change him, and your relationship is NOT important enough to him to be honest with you. He doesn't care about you the way he should; I'd leave NOW.
#1 by Anonymous
HELLO! he's obviously a liar and porn addict! Get out while you can before it's too late! WAKE UP!!!
