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So my husband and I haven't been having sex for quite awhile...the last couple of times we tried it was awful, and neither of us enjoyed it, (he had performance issues, I couldn't get aroused) one problem is totally no foreplay and going through the motions ON BOTH OUR PARTS... we have been together for several years and have never had spontaneous sex (although that is what I was used to prior to being with him) now recently I found out he is into porn and is watching it in another room while I am in bed, I got angry and told him that its messed up that he can get into the action onscreen/online but can't bring it to the bedroom, to which he replied that I don't do anything to turn him on,,, am I wrong to go back to using sex toys and/or finding stimulation elsewhere? No, I don't mean having sex with someone else

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September 30, 2009 at 1:48 pm by Anonymous in - Sex

#7 by lime.coconut

wow, your husbands a jackass

#6 by QQHOTGURLCHECKIN

girl,,, hate to say it but im going through the SAME OLD THING... yes its okay to bring out that sex toy... I know I did I am not going to lie... you know what that toy does a better job lol... yea I caught him,,, did you know there is a website to see local porn stars??? that was such a news flash to me... and certain movies that have sexy scenes he will save it for later,,, I caught him so many times... so if he is helping his self,,, I see no reason for you not to... ps make sure he knows about it,,, this will drive him crazy... best of luck

#5 by Anonymous

watching with him wouldn't be a problem except for the fact that whenever I brought that up he didn't want to, believe me I have tried although they do nothing for me,,,

#4 by Anonymous

Not that there's anything wrong with using toys and such, but what's wrong with him watching porn? Why don't you try watching it together? See what you like, make an effort to do what he likes, etc? Relationships aren't all about one person, it's not just his responsibility.

#3 by Anonymous

it sounds like maybe he's preoccupied w/the porn, so that carries over into the bedroom? doesn't sound healthy for him to be so engrossed in that, because who could compete w/porn.

#2 by Anonymous

try some kama sutra like crap which will probably take both of you out of your comfort zone and help you rediscover things about each other and cum up with a new sex life that will rekindle your flame or get a divorce idk

#1 by Anonymous

Find a new husband.

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