I was on a trip for school. My friend took my phone and started texting my boyfriend who wasnt on the trip. At first he just wanted to see if my boyfriend would realize it wasnt me, then we went to lunch and the phone was passed around our table and the text got more and more twisted and sexual as the trip progressed and we went from lunch to the next museum. (I monitored but I couldnt really stop them Eventually it wound up with "me" (aka my friends) asking him if he wanted me to give him a blowjob when I got back. The guys who had my phone told him that it wasnt me. When I got back my ex texted me telling me that my currrent boyfriend wishes most of the text were really from me. We kept talking and now me and my ex are kinda close (which is weird cause we hated each other) but he gave me some good advice and we talked about the whole situation. Last night, my boyfriend texted me "I'm not getting that blowjob, am I?" I texted him back no and after awhile of him asking why I said I don't want to talk about it and he texted back "can I atleast see 1 of your boobs?" I texted him I dont know and then turned off my phone. My friend said I should after having him think hes getting a I should atleast let him see my boob for a bit but I dont know. I dont want to cause I dont want it to lead to sex, which I'm not ready for. Am I wrong for letting my friends torture him? Am I wrong for not giving him ANY part of my, physically after all that?
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September 28, 2009 at 5:20 pm by Anonymous
in - Sex#5 by Anonymous
Why should you? It's not your fault. You didn't tell you friends what to write. But you should have told a teacher. It's YOUR phone it's YOUR property and that's stealing.
Either way. Don't feel bad. You'll feel worse than he does if you do something you're not ready for. Explain that to him.
#4 by Anonymous
Your friends did it. Not you. They can feel bad all they want, but none of it is on you. If he's pressuring you for something you're not ready for, he doesn't deserve you. High-five for sticking to your gut, and doing what you think is right! Don't let your friends give you a guilt trip, they're the ones in the wrong!
#3 by Anonymous
SAME EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME. look don't give him an inch because he will push for a mile trust me i know what im talking bout. plz plz plz listen to me becuz this happened to me more than once and i ended up losing all those guys in a bad way that made me feel bad becuz i kept giving them something i wasn't ready to give. and dont take it lightly cuz it may be "just a boob" now but trust he's not gunna stop there
#2 by Anonymous
You should not do anything. Just apologize to him for what your friends did, and leave it at that. If he pushes the issue, dump him.
#1 by Anonymous
no. your friends were wrong. do not do anything u dont want to do! stay a sweetheart :)
