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Am I wrong to be mad at a friend who ditches me to be with his girlfriend, which he claims "he does not get to see her very often". Yet, he sees her ATLEAST weekly, sometimes they even hang out after his classes are done. I don't know what he thinks "not often" is. And when he calls me, "apologizing" for not "hanging" with me, and he tells me that him and his GF are arguing, and he calls asking how I am, and tries to push in for advice for his problem, which I ignored. Did I do the right thing? Or should I have helped him? I mean, it's been about 5 weeks since we've hung out, and he did not ask me ONCE to do anything. He tells me how he's "broke", yet he still spends money on his GF. What kind of logic is that?? And every time I ask him to "hang" he's either too far (with his GF) to do anything, or he's broke, or he's working. Seriously, am I wrong for being pissed off?

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September 20, 2009 at 1:19 am by Anonymous in - Friends

#5 by Anonymous

well ur right, bc i think he might be just uding you for advice so he can jsut ditch u for his gf again, and its not right. So u do have right to be pissed. I always get pissed when i an ditched.

#4 by *Miss718*

You are not wrong, but you need to get a mate or something to occupy your time..

#3 by Anonymous

you must always keep in mind that she can do things for him that you can't.....like have sex so don't take it personal, besides your kinda starting to sound like a girlfriend with that whole "he doesn't spend enough time with me" shtick

#2 by Anonymous

I think there is more to meet the eye with this story sorry .

#1 by Anonymous

first of all, how old are you guys? if you all are just in high school, sometimes it's pretty easy to get caught up in being in a relationship around that age.. or maybe just any age. and people leaving their friends for their bf/gf happens for a while. it shouldn't happen but it just does. but no it's not wrong for you to be pissed off. but do help him out a little bit if you really are his friend. don't ignore him. and also help him see that he needs to spend some time with his friends other than his gf .. just don't be a jerk about it. get him to come out to your house if he says he's broke, or go to his [hanging out doesn't always have to mean you need money anyway]. if he asks you for advice again.. that's prob a good opportunity for you guys to meet up. try to talk it out. if he's still being difficult, then maybe it's just best to leave him alone for a while. the guy will come around.

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