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I met my girlfriend online. After about 4months she paid for me to fly to her state and spend time with her. So then after 2 months of me being there we left back to my home state to live cause I had a job and she was going to get a transfer. Well turns out her job screwed her over and people at mine were spreading dumb lies and I technically got fired. So we were in my home state for two months looking for jobs and pretty much poor living with my family. I had a job interview with a good company but she was told by her family they would help her move back if she wanted to work at her old job again. Now we live with her sister and she is working and I cant find a job. We are struggling. Am I wrong to think we should have stayed in my home state and at least gone to the interview and tried to get paid more money? Or are we gonna be ok and just have to wait it out till we get a break or another job/income? What do you think? Am I wrong for wanting to go back?

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September 14, 2009 at 7:32 pm by Anonymous in - Money

#5 by QQHOTGURLCHECKIN

Sorry to hear the troubles... keep looking for a job,,, im sure you will find one... meanwhile whos to say you cant kick back and relax,,, ps keep the house looking nice and dinner would be nice as well... can you tell imma woman?

#4 by Anonymous

If you really want to go back maybe you should. Maybe you could go back alone and try out for the job, and if the income is good enough then ask if she wants to move back to where you are.

#3 by Anonymous

Life is a gamble as long as you followed your heart it really doesn't matter.Everything happens for a reason,you should never live your life wondering if you did the right thing except the decision you made and move on because if you dwell on the decision you made you will never get ahead

#2 by Anonymous

You should have split and stayed in your home state.

#1 by Anonymous

It sounds like you have someone that you have really connected with. The two of you seem to really insist on facing things together. I understand the concern her family must have for them to bring her back to her homestate. I am somewhat surprised that you left your opportunity behind. I hope you guys are using some sort of birth control, because this could get ugly. You first have to decide what the real problem is here. It's obvious that you have a problem with her homestate, but you have to decide why. Is it because you don't have her all to yourself? Is it because you don't seem to "fit in"? If you want to be more dominant over her, then you need to go home- alone. Get your job and then build a foundation for her. Have something to offer her that would make her family comfortable allowing her to leave again. If you truly feel that you don't fit in, and not so much with you trying to control things, dust yourself off, mind your manners, and a job will fall into your lap. The first step is for you to be honest about why you are rushing to go back home.

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