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September 9, 2009 at 4:01 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships
#9 by Anonymous
i actually work for a very well known advertising company and im leaving to the army in january...plus i already have my bachelors degree..so i am not sitting around doing nothing fyi...
#8 by Anonymous
This girl dumped you. Get real about it, she does not want you. Re-read your post, what to do is obvious. She does not want you, move on.
#7 by Anonymous
So your girlfriend is in law school- what are you doing? Shouldn't you be somewhere so busy as well? She will be a lawyer in the next 2-3 years (hopefully) but, what will you be? Seems like you should be under construction yourself. Where do you see yourself in five years when she is raking in the dough? If you want this girl, GET TO WORK!!! And, sweetheart, trust me if she is not the one for you, there will be plenty others clamoring to get near you. It's not move on to the next girl, it's move on to a better you. GO BACK TO SCHOOL!!!!
#6 by Anonymous
Your feelings are justified. I have never been in law school myself, but my husband is in the army and I can garauntee that nothing is as difficult as keeping a relationship going when one person is deployed. In the 2 years and 3 months we dated before we got married, he was deployed for almost 15 months. In that time, I could not ever once pick up the phone and call him. I had to wait for his calls and write to him online or through the mail. It was difficult to say the least, but we were both committed to make it work, and it did. This girl may be very busy, but she could still make the relationship work out between you two if she really put out the effort. You're willing to, but it seems like she's not. That in itself is enough of a reason for you to move on. You need to find someone who will give you 100% no matter what life throws at you. I know it's easier said than done, but you will find the right person in time and also, in time, the pain of losing this girl will fade. Stay busy and surround yourself with people who care about you. The right person will come along when you're not even looking. It always seems to work out that way.
#5 by Anonymous
Law school is REALLY demanding. A relationship in the same town is hard enough to maneuver with you are in law school, let alone another state. It sounds like she has made a choice about what is most important to her at this point in her life. Move on. Wish her luck and Send facebook comments on holidays. If you are still available when law school is over and she moves back to NY, then maybe you guys can discuss things.
#4 by Anonymous
i have been in a situation extremely similar to this one and still believe i loved him. he was saying distance was the problem. eventually, i found out that he had been lying to me the whole time about having someone else, too. now after the fact, i see how much time was wasted, and it was very heart breaking. my advice is, move on. if she wants to be with you, she will come to her senses because you have known each other for years. you seem like a great person, and if she doesn't realize it, there are other women out there that will give you the same in return.
#3 by Anonymous
Ok you seem to be a good person. I a person that speaks through music and in this situation the song by Mariah Carey-Butterfly is what comes to mind her. Let her go and you live your life and if it's truely meant to be then she will come if not then still continue to be a good friend. God Bless
#2 by Anonymous
never change who you are you can always text to she how she is doing ,but at the moment she has other things on her mind and not thinking about you step away for a while let her be worry about you and your life and maybe she will relize what she had in you and come back then you will know it was meant to be do you son...lol
#1 by Anonymous
You need to totally move on. It's not meant to be. You are still so young, explore the world! You will have many relationships after this one :)
