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I met this girl on face-book randomly, we started to talk just basic chit chat every day i found out she was a six hour drive away and the usual stuff school,work,likes,dislikes etc. Then about 2 weeks into talking to her she told me a family member got sick and she had to go to Asia, i did not know really what to say to i just did what i normally do and tried to help/comfort her in any way i could as im the type of person that will do anything for someone i know or call a friend and at this point i considered her a friend. She got over there and was going back n forth to the hospital and what not, we were still talking every day at this point and i was trying to help keep her mind of it or at least let her vent to me. Then one day she was talking to me and i could literally feel the sadness in her messages i asked what was wrong she said well were broke and short on the medical costs, so i had some extra money that month and tbh was going to buy drugs with it so instead i sent it to her cause she needed it more. She was releaved and happy that i could help her, we continued to talk and grew closer and closer with every day, to the point were i wanted to tell her i love her, then out of the blue she said it first i returned the affection and everything. I contined to try to help her as best i could with what i had to spare, its been a year now and she is still there and still says she loves me adn misses me, and im still madly inlove with her, weve even talked about kids, and marrage and I love her enough to be willing to marry her and have kids. Now a days tho i dont have any extram money to spare and money is tight on her end aswell, the family member is out of the hospital but still sick (i think im not 100% sure because she doesnt talk to much about it, i dont blame her but id also like to know). She still send me messages about every 3 days in my inbox, we hardly speak through the chat system anymore because of the time change. The messages i get from her now are basic i love you and miss you, the odd how are you doing, and when i send her a detailed message of my situation or current events or ask how everything is with her, she just reply's with a i love you and miss you type of message and avoids the question all together. am i wrong to love her? am i expecting to much from her?

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August 8, 2010 at 3:43 pm by Anonymous in - Love