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August 19, 2009 at 10:17 pm by admin in - Miscellaneous
#7 by Anonymous
your family doesn't need some one to stick up for the group. They need some one to get to the core of things and be mature enough to resolve it.
#6 by Anonymous
if she is rude to your entire family why do you have to point it out? Wouldn't case and point be made with out your involvement. Just own your end of it, rather than blaming her...
#5 by QQHOTGURLCHECKIN
gutsy
#4 by shece00
I think I would have pulled my brother to the side and asked him why she feels she has to be rude to the family and is she that way with everyone? Sounds like the woman may have issues no one may know about. There is really no excuse for rudeness in my book, but there is usually some other reason for this kind of behavior. Is she so unhappy she has to make others around her unhappy too? hmmm.. something for your brother to think about. ( I personally would not put up with the rudeness and would have to ask her to her face why she is being so rude! )
#3 by Anonymous
I'd hate her too.
#2 by Anonymous
the key to approaching this situation is with tact and "kid gloves". your husband loves this woman and made a life-long committment to her - at some point, especially with men, the family they create overcomes the one they came from! Be careful not to damage your relationship with your brother by letting him know bluntly how you feel - start with a conversation about a recent example of her rude displays towards the family, how it makes you feel, and how you would like it resolved. most men won't deal with emotions - he will brush it off rather than mediate. If you present him with a problem, he will be more likely to participate in a solution.
#1 by Anonymous
Your right to stick up for your family but hate is a strong word . . .
