Submit Your Story

Is there anything wrong with being eighteen and wanting to have a baby?

read comments (1) you are RIGHT! (3) - you are WRONG! (22)
April 9, 2010 at 3:38 am by Anonymous in - Kids [+]

So, I'm currently in the army and so is my son's father. Well 3 months after we started dating I ended up pregnant and at first he was really happy and i told him, but me and him used to fight like cats and dogs. We d@mn near hated each other lol. so anyways when i was around 4 months pregnant he tells me he volunteered for a mission in south america, so he'd get paid more to take care of "our family" well he left in the beginning of February and after 2 weeks of being there, he stopped calling, he stopped answering his phone, he even stopped responding to emails. When i finally got in touch with him he said that it's bc he's working 24/7 (yeah right! i'm in the army and the only time we work 24/7 is Iraq or Afghanistan) so trying to save my relationship with my son's father i told him i would wait for him. well he was supposed to come home for our son's birth, his excuse was that he couldnt afford to come home. (he has a drinking problem and someone i used to work with is over there with him and told me he is ALWAYS in the bar drinking with OTHER FEMALES!) So, anyways by the time i had our son we were barely speaking. I'd be LUCKY to hear from him ONCE A MONTH! So, he calls me 2 days after I had our son and says "you have the kid yet? well i want a DNA test" mind you he was LIVING with me when i got pregnant, we worked the same work schedules and were always together, i have never cheated on anyone in my entire life! and to top things off has literally DONE NOTHING to help get ready for our son, not even a pack of diapers!!!!!! And he had the nerve to get mad with me because i gave MY son MY last name. so here's my question to all of yall.... am i wrong for getting out of the army and disappearing back to my home state with a baby that he doesnt even know the birthday, weight/height at birth, FULL NAME, nothing! and it's not bc i havent offered ive literally gone above and beyond the "baby mamma" call of duty for this man/boy. please let me know what you would do!

read comments (16) you are RIGHT! (62) - you are WRONG! (5)
September 13, 2009 at 10:23 am by Anonymous in - Kids [+]

My baby dad has been paying child support, but about half of what is ordered... ANd on top of that he NEVER see's my kids! So now he has a warrant for not paying as ordered... for my kids and another kid he has previously! So I think if I'm only getting half the money and you don't spend any time with your kids... what difference does it make if he's in jail?? Am I wrong?

read comments (8) you are RIGHT! (51) - you are WRONG! (10)
August 21, 2009 at 10:11 am by Anonymous in - Kids [+]